Am I my brother’s keeper?
Am I my sister’s keeper?
This is a crucial question that all Christians should reflect on as it relates to suicide prevention.
In the United States, suicide is the 10th leading cause of death; and approximately one million people may attempt suicide annually. It’s a heartrending concern that may burden an individual’s family emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and financially.
For this reason, it’s important for everyone to exercise care and concern for anyone who may become challenged with a crisis relating to a person, place, problem, or position wherein they consider suicide as an only option or resolution.
During the month of September, suicide prevention is recognized and demonstrated by efforts to educate the public on understanding warning signs for suicide, how to effectively intervene and support someone considering suicide, and how knowledge save lives.
One significant misconception about suicide is that it only affects older people; however, studies are showing that thoughts of suicide and attempts are beginning to affect our teens and younger children at an alarming rate.
Another misconception about suicide is that once someone makes up their mind or attempts the act, they won’t reconsider. Studies have shown that those who receive adequate support (social/spiritual/ and psychological) and coping skills have a lower risk of re-attempting and/or carrying out the act.
Common Warning Signs of a person who may be considering suicide:
- Preoccupied with death; frequently talks about killing themselves or wanting to die
- Refers to themselves as a burden to family, friends, or society
- Complains of an inability to cope or resolve issues
- Makes remarks about feeling guilty
- Complains about pain and sharing they will be relieved of pain “once and for all”
- Isolating one’s self from friends and family
- Uncontrollable crying, or feeling sad
- Excessive use of drugs and alcohol
- Participating in dangerous activities that may lead to death
- Increased depression or mental issues
- Previous attempt at suicide
Supporting someone who may be considering suicide:
- Never leave the person alone
- Ask if he/she is having thoughts of killing themselves; and if they are, ask about the plan
- Connect the Call (call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline @ 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
- Focus on positives when having a discussion with the individual
- Offer prayer; and call for the person’s spiritual leader or someone from the clergy
- Provide information on support groups
Challenge:
Think on these things to help save another:
- Be your brother’s keeper; and your sister’s keeper…
- Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ. (Gal 6:2)
- For I was hungry, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in (Matt 25:35)
Contributor: Dr. Karen Jackson
DNP, MSN, NEA-BC